Unforgiveness

"Perhaps...there is a gap in all of us that remains essentially unbridgeable, a part of us that we cannot mend because it is a feature of our mortality to be without some degree of reconciliation. To be unforgiving almost seems inevitable, even natural, within a part of us."

~Kenneth Briggs, The Power of Forgiveness


"Forgiveness is a gift and if you don't have it don't pretend that you do."

~Thomas Moore, The Power of Forgiveness

For the last two weeks, we have gathered after worship to discuss forgiveness, both its elusive nature and its scientifically-documented effects on human health and well-being. This Sunday we are going to talk about unforgiveness. Clearly forgiveness is not a natural instinct for human beings; rather, we are quick to take offense and then seek revenge or hold a grudge. But are there offenses that actually justify our being unforgiving? Are there ways in which holding onto a sense of betrayal and resentment is actually a good, protective instinct? Does the Bible ever depict the gracious God we worship as unforgiving?

These are difficult questions with no easy answers, but I guarantee they will make for a fascinating discussion that will challenge and maybe even deepen your faith. Join us on Sunday in the sanctuary right after worship until 12noon.

See you in church!